Decked out in her Sunday best, she sat proudly as he taught his obviously well thought out, very prepared lesson. At times her rigidity seemed severe, but she was listening intently, nodding and following along as though he was the only one in the room. Decades of wisdom and experience crossed his lips; though his face was mostly stern, the love of the Lord radiated from him. She took in the words of truth being uttered. Love.
Then, as the service began I noticed she sat alone. Always so put together, she seemed a bit out of place without him by her side. It wasn't as though she was lost, just uncomfortable. It was clear that their long life together had made absence, even short lived, seem like an eternity. Within minutes, he was there beside her and she was at ease. True love.
And tonight as I left the camp meeting, I found myself walking behind them as they strolled, hand-in-hand along that quiet sidewalk talking and laughing. Dressed more casually (for them) and obviously relaxed. He led her along and she followed with joy. When they got to their car (which was just across from mine, I really wasn't trying to stalk them), he opened her door and waited until she was situated before heading around to the drivers side. Unconditional love.
It was like a scene out of some old movie. I doubt that they feel very comfortable in today's culture at all. They're from a very different generation... a simple, more romantic time even. Though I'm certain we have very different beliefs and that we would probably disagree on everything except Christ, I couldn't help but be captivated by their love today. Their's is a love that is completely grounded in Christ. It's so obvious that from the time of their courtship up to now, he has pointed her to Christ and she has encouraged and supported his faith walk too. They love Christ in one another. Jesus is the center, the best part of their relationship. I'm sure it's not been all roses, but I'm also sure that their foundation hasn't ever been shaken... that they've always remained grounded in Jesus.
So, why am I being such a creep? Well, that's just who I am. Accept it. ;)
But really, God has been speaking to my heart about real, unconditional love. I believe He showed me their love as an example today and it's been a real joy to observe. Love without condition. Love no matter what life throws at you. Love all parts of every person, especially their imperfections. Love when it costs you everything and even when it causes you deep pain. This is the love that Christ has for me. This is the love I desire from a husband. This is the love that I am to be spreading with every breath I take.
Oh Lord, refine me. Fill me up. Pour out of me. Amen.
